Are you an alive sensual feminine being who has a yes for pleasure, and wants to have a great bedroom experience with your partner? Then design your bedroom to be a great space for a romantic and sexual encounter. No kidding – intending your bedroom space to be sensually great for you makes a difference to […]
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There is quite a lot to celebrate about the female body and how it responds to and is geared for pleasure and female orgasm. It is quite marvelous. When arousal is triggered, cascades of events occur. Neurotransmitters release from a woman’s brain and she gets a nice tingly feeling in her genital tissue. Her nipples […]
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Hundreds of women have told me, “I love my husband, but I am no longer interested in having sex.” Hundreds! Millions more are out there. More than 500 million women in the world are post- menopausal. Many of these woman still want to be interested in sex, they just aren’t. Trisha was 62 years old […]
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About 10% of women in the US (20% of the women I see in my practice) have a relative excess of androgen hormones or have been diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome). PCOS is a genetic hormonal pattern. In PCOS, DHEA and testosterone are robustly influential in relation to your female hormones (estrogen and progesterone). […]
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Heather was thirty-one when she first came to my office for help to locate her sexual desire. Her sandy blonde hair had an angled cut that came right below her chin. She walked in, sat down in the office chair right up against my clinic desk, and looked directly at me and said, “Tell me […]
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Signed, a woman with little to no desire for sex Of the low libido women who come to see me, roughly two or three out of twenty will have testosterone levels low enough that I identify it as a contributing factor to their low sex drive. Could that be you? It is important for you […]
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Sex is funny mystery. You want to be relaxed enough so that you can then enjoy a build up of tension. It seems like two different directions at the same time, yet that is how sex works. The following current medical research looks at these two directions: MRIs were taken of the brains of women […]
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“Treat Your Vaginal Dryness Early” are the words I would put on large billboards along I-5 and along other major highways in the US. I want to get the word out to women sooner about this common problem. Many women I see have waited months or years to seek treatment, and I cringe at the […]
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These tips are from a handout given out at a recent couples workshop. Read
through the list together as it can start an intimate conversation or even a more interesting engagement.
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On July 24, 2017 the Vaginal DHEA suppository we have been hearing about for five years became commercially available. Called Prasterone, with the brand name Intraosa, it is available by prescription. It is for the treatment of sexual pain during intercourse due to menopausal changes. Prasterone (DHEA) is converted locally in the vagina into androgens […]
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The first thing to know as you explore what takes you from a zero to a ten is that no two women are alike. You have your own personal arousal triggers. The ideas you see in the movies, or hear from a girlfriend may or may not work for you. How do you find out what works […]
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When women get in bed with their mates and start the touch that leads to sex, they are often starting at a zero level of arousal–possibly a one or two out of 10. The arousal level that they would find exciting enough to lead to orgasm would be at a nine or a 10. That […]
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The women I see in my office express a yearning for a deep connection and a big love affair, for a mate that treasures them more than anyone else. They want this passion and excitement in their everyday lives. Preferably they want to have this with their current husband, or partner. They do not want […]
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There is quite a lot to celebrate about the female body and how it responds to and is geared for pleasure. It is quite marvelous. When arousal is triggered, cascades of events occur. Neurotransmitters release from a woman’s brain and she gets a nice tingly feeling in her genital tissue. Her nipples become firm, and the clitoris gets erect. […]
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Women want to have an interesting and compelling time in the bedroom. They want experiences where they melt and merge with their partners, have exquisite sensations, and have feelings that are too big and beautiful to be described in words. If you want to invest in having this kind of a sex life, one […]
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Set the Stage for Delicious Sexual Events
UncategorizedAre you an alive sensual feminine being who has a yes for pleasure, and wants to have a great bedroom experience with your partner? Then design your bedroom to be a great space for a romantic and sexual encounter. No kidding – intending your bedroom space to be sensually great for you makes a difference to […]
A Body Designed for Sexual Pleasure and Female Orgasm
UncategorizedThere is quite a lot to celebrate about the female body and how it responds to and is geared for pleasure and female orgasm. It is quite marvelous. When arousal is triggered, cascades of events occur. Neurotransmitters release from a woman’s brain and she gets a nice tingly feeling in her genital tissue. Her nipples […]
There is no better time in history to be a post-menopausal woman who wants to have a great sex life
UncategorizedHundreds of women have told me, “I love my husband, but I am no longer interested in having sex.” Hundreds! Millions more are out there. More than 500 million women in the world are post- menopausal. Many of these woman still want to be interested in sex, they just aren’t. Trisha was 62 years old […]
How PCOS Can Affect Your Sex Life
UncategorizedAbout 10% of women in the US (20% of the women I see in my practice) have a relative excess of androgen hormones or have been diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome). PCOS is a genetic hormonal pattern. In PCOS, DHEA and testosterone are robustly influential in relation to your female hormones (estrogen and progesterone). […]
Is your birth control flattening your sex drive?
UncategorizedHeather was thirty-one when she first came to my office for help to locate her sexual desire. Her sandy blonde hair had an angled cut that came right below her chin. She walked in, sat down in the office chair right up against my clinic desk, and looked directly at me and said, “Tell me […]
Question: Do I need to get my testosterone level tested?
UncategorizedSigned, a woman with little to no desire for sex Of the low libido women who come to see me, roughly two or three out of twenty will have testosterone levels low enough that I identify it as a contributing factor to their low sex drive. Could that be you? It is important for you […]
The Female Brain and Your Level of Sexual Desire
UncategorizedSex is funny mystery. You want to be relaxed enough so that you can then enjoy a build up of tension. It seems like two different directions at the same time, yet that is how sex works. The following current medical research looks at these two directions: MRIs were taken of the brains of women […]
Sex Doesn’t Have to be Painful
Uncategorized“Treat Your Vaginal Dryness Early” are the words I would put on large billboards along I-5 and along other major highways in the US. I want to get the word out to women sooner about this common problem. Many women I see have waited months or years to seek treatment, and I cringe at the […]
How to keep the Bedroom Alive and Interesting for Both of You
NewsThese tips are from a handout given out at a recent couples workshop. Read
through the list together as it can start an intimate conversation or even a more interesting engagement.
New Treatment for Menopause and Vaginal Dryness
NewsOn July 24, 2017 the Vaginal DHEA suppository we have been hearing about for five years became commercially available. Called Prasterone, with the brand name Intraosa, it is available by prescription. It is for the treatment of sexual pain during intercourse due to menopausal changes. Prasterone (DHEA) is converted locally in the vagina into androgens […]
Women and Sexual Arousal PART TWO
NewsThe first thing to know as you explore what takes you from a zero to a ten is that no two women are alike. You have your own personal arousal triggers. The ideas you see in the movies, or hear from a girlfriend may or may not work for you. How do you find out what works […]
Women and Sexual Arousal
NewsWhen women get in bed with their mates and start the touch that leads to sex, they are often starting at a zero level of arousal–possibly a one or two out of 10. The arousal level that they would find exciting enough to lead to orgasm would be at a nine or a 10. That […]
Women and Sexual Desire: Adding clarity into this mystery
NewsThe women I see in my office express a yearning for a deep connection and a big love affair, for a mate that treasures them more than anyone else. They want this passion and excitement in their everyday lives. Preferably they want to have this with their current husband, or partner. They do not want […]
A Body Designed for Sexual Pleasure
NewsThere is quite a lot to celebrate about the female body and how it responds to and is geared for pleasure. It is quite marvelous. When arousal is triggered, cascades of events occur. Neurotransmitters release from a woman’s brain and she gets a nice tingly feeling in her genital tissue. Her nipples become firm, and the clitoris gets erect. […]
Create an environment for an “EVENT”
NewsWomen want to have an interesting and compelling time in the bedroom. They want experiences where they melt and merge with their partners, have exquisite sensations, and have feelings that are too big and beautiful to be described in words. If you want to invest in having this kind of a sex life, one […]