The content on this site is designed and curated to increase women’s pleasure…the pleasure in the moments of her day-to-day life and the pleasure with her partner. My decades of work with female hormones and sexuality has shown me that women’s pleasure in our culture is under supported. We don’t have high enough expectations of how things could be for her or her partner. When we do support her experiences, down to the detail required, whether it is for menstrual cramps, fatigue, hot flashes, or sex drive, her life is different. It is better …. and it is not just better for her.

And so, this site is created with the intent to increase the enjoyment women experience day-to-day—with a special focus on both sexual and relationship pleasure. Here you will find multiple actionable suggestions that can bring you closer to your mate and can increase the intimacy and power of your connection. That connection being a treasure of a most special kind.

Included are ways to support your mood and your energy level and to make sure your sleep is restorative. Because when the pillow looks better than the partner, or the irritability creates distance, well, not many potentially powerful moments happen. And let’s not forget other obstacles like PMS, heavy bleeding, vaginal dryness, hot flashes and sexual pain …they too interrupt feminine lives. As does that problem of having such a busy mind you can’t relax or even get your attention on your own physical sensations.

The blog posts on this site, and the videos connected to them, have intelligent responses for the physical, medical, hormonal and sometimes energetic obstacles that stand in your way of having a strong sense of well-being and a mutually wonderful relationship. All disclosures on this site are intended to raise your expectations of how much enjoyment you can expect to have and to increase your know-how on getting it. The big intent here is to optimize the likelihood that what is happening with you and in your life is what you truly desire to be happening.

Welcome to Fanning the Female Flame!

I invite you to join our community of hundreds of women who have developed compelling relationships. Relationships with their mates that are now more than they were before…more powerful and deeply satisfying. They have qualities that satisfy a hunger the women didn’t fully realize they had or even knew was possible.

You can too… it’s within your reach!